Graduations

Everything you want to tell them before they go

A graduation card holds four lines. Instead, gather a page from each person who helped get them here — grandparents, coaches, the teacher who believed in them sophomore year — and print it as a hardcover they'll take to the dorm and open on the hard days.

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The advice arrives when they're least ready to hear it

Everything people want to say to a graduate gets squeezed into a receiving line and a stack of cards opened in one sitting. Most of it is wonderful — what someone learned in their own first year away, the thing they wish they'd done differently — and almost none of it survives the week.

A book holds it until it's needed. Each person writes one page: a memory of your graduate, a photo from whenever they knew them best, and the one piece of advice they truly mean. Grandma, the swim coach, the AP history teacher, the best friend moving to a different state in August.

It works for high school and college alike, and it's a lovely group gift when a class or a team wants to send off a teacher, a coach, or each other. Some parents quietly build one through senior year and hand it over at the end.

A young woman sitting on a bed looking through a printed photo book
Read on the day, and again in a dorm room in November.
How it works

Start about a month before the ceremony

Spring is busy for everyone, so set a deadline and send one friendly reminder.

STEP 1

Create the project

Their name, a photo, the graduating year, and a contribution deadline about a week before the party.

STEP 2

Send the link wide

Family, the group chat, the team, the teachers. They open it in a browser and go — no app, no password, nothing to sign up for.

STEP 3

Pages come in

Photos, stories and advice arrive and are arranged into finished pages. You read each one before it goes in.

STEP 4

Print for the party

Order the hardcover, or download the free PDF if the timing gets tight. Extra copies for grandparents are easy.

Why a memory book is the graduation gift they'll keep

It gives a graduate the two things a card can't: the whole cast of people who care about them, and advice they can return to.

Teachers and coaches can join in

Anyone with the link can add a page, so the people who shaped the last four years aren't limited to whoever comes to the party.

The old photos look their best

Scans and phone pictures of prints are corrected when uploaded, which matters when relatives send the first-day-of-kindergarten shot.

It's there when they need it

A card is read on the day. A book of people telling you what they know gets opened again in a hard week months later.

A group gift for a whole team or class

A team, a class or an extended family can all contribute, and everyone can put a little toward the printing.

People say the real thing

Given a prompt and a quiet place to write, teachers and coaches say things they'd never say out loud at an assembly.

It goes with them

A 10-inch square matte hardcover with a printed spine — made for a shelf in a room that isn't home yet.

Prompts to put in your invitation

"Write something for the graduate" gets six versions of good luck. A question gets something they'll keep.

“What were they like when you first knew them?”
“What do you know now that you wish you'd known at eighteen?”
“The moment you realized what they were capable of.”
“A photo of them from as far back as you have.”
“What should they absolutely not worry about?”
“What do you hope for them in the next four years?”
Pricing

Free to collect, and the group can cover the printing

Nothing is owed until you order a book, and gifts from contributors apply straight to the print cost.

$0

To start and collect

Create the project, invite everyone, and gather photos and stories for free. You only pay if you print.

$34.95

Printed hardcover, 20 pages

A 10-inch square matte hardcover with matte interior pages, plus shipping. Extra pages are $1.25 each.

$1.25

Per gifted page

Friends and family can chip in toward printing — each $1.25 covers one page of the finished book.

Questions

Graduation memory book questions

How far ahead should I start?

About a month. Two to three weeks for people to write, then roughly 96 hours for printing plus shipping. Spring is busy for everyone, so a clear deadline matters even more than usual.

Can teachers and coaches contribute?

Yes, and their pages are often the ones the graduate treasures most. There's no account to create and nothing to install — they open the link, write, and attach a photo if they have one.

Does it work for college as well as high school?

Just as well, and often better — the people who matter are more spread out, which is exactly the problem a link solves.

Can we make one for a whole class or team?

Yes. Make the team or class the star of the book instead of one person, and everyone adds their own page. Copies can then be ordered for each family.

How much does a graduation memory book cost?

Setting up and collecting is free. A hardcover is $34.95 for the first 20 pages, then $1.25 for each page after that, plus shipping. Thirty contributors comes to about $47.45. The PDF is free.

Can we order copies for the grandparents?

Yes — once the book is finished you can order as many copies as you like, and several households usually want one.

Related pages

Other celebrations families make books for.

Send them off with more than a card

Start the project, send the link to everyone who helped get them here, and hand over a book at the party.

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