Life stories

Write it down while they are here to correct it

Most family history is lost quietly, one person at a time. Collect the stories, dates and photographs from everyone who holds a piece of them — including the subject — and print it as a hardcover.

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Everyone means to sit down and ask. Almost nobody does.

There is a version of this where one person interviews a parent with a recorder, transcribes forty hours, and produces a book. It is a wonderful thing and it very rarely happens, because it is one person's unpaid second job and there is no deadline forcing it.

Splitting it up is what makes it finishable. A sibling writes the years they remember and you do not. A cousin has the story about the move. An old colleague knows the working life nobody in the family ever saw. The subject writes their own chapters where they want to, and corrects the rest — which is the part you cannot do later.

Families use this for a parent or grandparent while they are still able to take part, for an immigrant generation whose account exists only in one head, for a family line assembled by whoever has the documents, and as the thing to make when someone is ill and the window is closing.

Two people sitting together turning the pages of an old family photo album
The stories that only exist in one person's memory, written down while they can still check them.
How it works

Build it in chapters, over months if you need to

This is the one occasion with no deadline attached, so set your own — and set it, or it will not happen.

STEP 1

Create the project

Their name, a portrait, the span of years the book covers, and a date you intend to print by.

STEP 2

Ask for specific decades

“Anything about Dad” gets nothing. “What do you remember about the years on Fremont Street” gets three pages.

STEP 3

Pages come in

Stories, photographs and documents arrive as finished pages. You review each one, and you can order them into a timeline.

STEP 4

Print it, and print it again

Order the hardcover when it is full enough. The project stays open, so a second edition later is normal.

Why a family does this together

No one person remembers a whole life, including the person who lived it.

The gaps get filled in

Each contributor covers the years they were actually present for, which is how a life gets covered end to end.

It is not one person's project

The work is spread across everyone who cares about it, so it does not stall when the organizer gets busy.

Old prints and documents come out better

Scans of photographs, letters and certificates are corrected on upload, so hundred-year-old material is legible.

They can take part in it

The subject can write their own chapters and read what everyone else wrote, which is the whole point of not waiting.

Distant relatives are reachable

Anyone with the link can add a page from anywhere, including the branch of the family nobody has seen in years.

It ends up on a shelf

A 10-inch square matte hardcover with a printable spine — a book, not a folder of scans nobody opens.

Prompts that actually produce chapters

Ask for a decade or an object, never for “their life story.”

“What was the house you grew up in like?”
“How did they meet? Tell it the way you heard it.”
“What did a normal working day look like for them?”
“The hardest year, and what got them through it.”
“A photograph, and everything you know about when it was taken.”
“What did they believe that you have kept?”
Pricing

Free to collect, and the group can cover the printing

Nothing is owed until you order a book, and gifts from contributors apply straight to the print cost.

$0

To start and collect

Create the project, invite everyone, and gather photos and stories for free. You only pay if you print.

$34.95

Printed hardcover, 20 pages

A 10-inch square matte hardcover with matte interior pages, plus shipping. Extra pages are $1.25 each.

$1.25

Per gifted page

Friends and family can chip in toward printing — each $1.25 covers one page of the finished book.

Questions

Life story book questions

Can the person it is about contribute?

Yes, and it is the main reason to do it now rather than later. They can write their own chapters, and they can correct the dates and names everyone else gets slightly wrong.

How long does a book like this take?

Longer than an occasion book, because there is no party forcing the date. Families commonly collect over two or three months. Setting a printing date yourself is what keeps it moving.

What if relatives will not write anything?

Ask narrower questions, and let people submit on someone's behalf. A phone call where you type what they say into the form counts, and often produces the best pages.

Can I include documents and not just photos?

Yes — scans of letters, certificates, passenger records and handwritten recipes all upload as images and are enhanced the same way photographs are.

What will it cost?

A hardcover is $34.95 for the first 20 pages, then $1.25 for each page after that, plus shipping. A sixty-page life story comes to about $84.95. The PDF is free.

Can every sibling have a copy?

Yes — additional copies of the same book can be ordered, which is the usual outcome for a family history.

Related pages

Other occasions people build books for.

The window for this closes quietly

Start the project, ask four people for one decade each, and you will have more of it down than you have now.

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