New babies

A book of wishes, waiting for the baby

Before the baby arrives, gather a page from everyone who's excited — a wish for the little one, the advice they wish someone had given them, a photo of Mom or Dad at the same age. It becomes a hardcover the parents will read long after the shower, and the child will read one day too.

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Shower cards get read once. This gets read for years.

A baby shower produces a pile of cards. They're opened in a room full of people, glanced at, and then they live in a box in the closet. And yet the advice inside them is often the most useful thing anyone gives new parents — and it's the part most likely to be lost.

A memory book keeps it. Each person writes one page — a wish for the child, what they learned in their own first year as a parent, a story about Mom or Dad as a baby. Photos go in alongside, so the grandparents' old albums end up in the same book as the ultrasound.

It also solves the distance problem. The aunt in another state, the college friend who can't travel, the grandmother who isn't up to the trip — all of them can add a page, and none of it depends on being in the room.

Two parents lying either side of their baby, each kissing the baby's cheek
Both sides of the family write into the same book — often the first thing the two circles do together.
How it works

Start a few weeks before the shower

Most people write in the last few days, so set a deadline and expect a happy rush.

STEP 1

Create the project

The baby's name if you have one, a photo of the parents-to-be, the due date, and a deadline for contributions.

STEP 2

Send one link

Both sides of the family, the group chat, the coworkers, and the friends who aren't at the shower but still want to say something.

STEP 3

Pages come in

Wishes, advice and photos arrive and are arranged into finished pages. You read each one before it goes in.

STEP 4

Print it, or keep it open

Order the hardcover for the shower, or leave the project open and print once the baby is actually here.

A sleeping newborn with one hand curled up beside their face
Written before the first sleepless weeks blur together.
An adult hand holding a pair of tiny shoes by their laces
And by the people who can't be at the shower.

Why a memory book beats a stack of cards

The same loving words, in something the parents will still have when the child is old enough to read them.

Both families in one book

Two sets of relatives who may barely know each other all write into the same place, without anyone coordinating.

Distance stops mattering

Anyone with the link can add a page from anywhere, so the guest list doesn't limit who gets to be part of it.

Old photos look beautiful

Scans and phone pictures of prints are enhanced when uploaded, which matters when Grandma sends her own baby photos.

Nothing to assemble

Every page is laid out for you. Nobody spends the third trimester with a glue stick.

The advice survives

What people really know about the first year ends up somewhere the parents can find at 3am, instead of in a card box.

A book the child reads later

A 10-inch square matte hardcover, written by everyone who was glad they were coming.

A newborn in a bow headband lying on a white blanket
The book is for them, eventually. It just gets written before they can read it.

Prompts to put in your invitation

"Write something for the baby" produces blank pages. A question produces lovely ones.

“What do you wish for them?”
“What do you know now that you wish you'd known in the first year?”
“A photo of their mom or dad at the same age.”
“Which family tradition do you hope they inherit?”
“What will you teach them, given the chance?”
“The thing nobody warns you about, and how you got through it.”
A pregnant woman standing outdoors with her hands resting on her bump
Start it while you're still waiting.
A black and white photograph of a parent leaning over their sleeping newborn
Print for the shower, or once they're actually here.
Pricing

Free to collect, and the group can cover the printing

Nothing is owed until you order a book, and gifts from contributors apply straight to the print cost.

$0

To start and collect

Create the project, invite everyone, and gather photos and stories for free. You only pay if you print.

$34.95

Printed hardcover, 20 pages

A 10-inch square matte hardcover with matte interior pages, plus shipping. Extra pages are $1.25 each.

$1.25

Per gifted page

Friends and family can chip in toward printing — each $1.25 covers one page of the finished book.

Questions

New baby memory book questions

When should I start it?

Three to four weeks before the shower is comfortable. Give people two to three weeks to write, then allow roughly 96 hours for printing plus shipping if you want it in hand on the day.

Can people still add pages after the baby is born?

Yes. The project stays open until you close it, so you can collect through the shower, the birth and the first weeks, then print once. Some families print twice — a PDF for the shower and a hardcover later.

Does it work as the shower guest book?

It does, and it's far better than a signature book — guests add their page on a phone at the shower, and everyone who couldn't come adds theirs the same way.

What if we don't have a name yet?

Use something like "Baby Sullivan" and change it later. Nothing in the book is locked until you order the print.

How much does a baby memory book cost?

Setting up and collecting is free. A hardcover is $34.95 for the first 20 pages, then $1.25 for each page after that, plus shipping. Twenty-five contributors comes to about $41.20. The PDF is free.

Can we order copies for the grandparents?

Yes — once the book is finished you can order as many copies as you like, and both sets of grandparents usually want one.

Related pages

Other celebrations families make books for.

An expectant parent holding a pair of tiny shoes and two ultrasound scans
Collected before the birth, so the wishes are waiting when the baby is.

Collect the wishes while everyone is excited

Start the project, send the link to both families, and hand the new parents a book instead of a pile of cards.

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